How to Identify a Safe Partner
By David B. Wexler Ph.D. and Donald Meichenbaum Ph.D.
Why We Love It!
Choose Him Wisely is one of those rare books that could truly save lives. Written by two of the world’s leading experts in relationship safety and psychology, Dr. David B. Wexler and Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, this compact but powerful guide gives readers the tools to recognize early red flags and make safer, more informed choices about their partners.
We love how this book blends clinical insight with real-world compassion. Using case studies, warning signs, and practical checklists, the authors explain not only how abuse develops but also why smart, capable women can miss the subtle cues at the start. Their message is clear: knowledge is empowerment, and awareness is protection.
What makes Choose Him Wisely so essential is its accessibility —i t’s short, direct, and deeply humane. It belongs in the hands of every woman, parent, counselor, and friend who wants to prevent tragedy and promote healthy, respectful relationships. This isn’t just a book — it’s a lifeline, filled with empathy, hope, and life-saving wisdom.